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Topics: "Life" advice for a newly single middle aged man.?

According to Thai women, older men offer more love and stability, something many complain they don't get when marrying into their own kind and age group.

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Well, I m not a man over 50 but I was curious. Anyways here are my thoughts: Try it. See how the first date goes, and explain that you want an equal partnership and don t wish to be like one of those playboy bunnies. Of course in your own way. Another thing I think is important, is your mentality. Don t think the rules have changed, (well maybe they have a little) it s still a date, no matter how old he is and how young you are. Treat it like you would any other date/relationship. If it goes well and you think he s right for you great! If not, oh well. Move on. :)

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According to Thai women, older men offer more love and stability, something many complain they don''t get when marrying into their own kind and age group.

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The only way I can think of is to consult a psychologist who may be able to give you tools to overcome your obsession. Failing that, you ll just have to find a nice older guy who with whom you do have chemistry. My daughter in law had similar problems and she found my son, or my son found her, I m not sure which, who was divorced and they re fine. Been together 8 years now after he picked her up from school, so to speak. She d just finished high school when they met. She s raised his 2 kids, as his ex was and is a waste of space. Hasn t had any herself yet, but I suspect it won t be long.

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Your daughter may have grown to having just you in her life, at the age she is at now, it is very important for her mother to be in her life. She may feel threatened whenever he is around, like he is trying to steal you from her. I would suggest making yourself happy but all the while reassuring her that she is still number 1 in your life. Make sure you still have one on one time with her. Take her to the movies, just you and her, or something else that both of you could enjoy together. Good luck and congrats on being happy.