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This is a tough situation no parent wants to be in and there many dynamics involved. If your daughter doesn’t see the situation or life she has been living as a problem, then your options may be limited. Her self esteem may be so low that she can see value in her own needs. If you feel her own well being is in jeopardy, you may need to check with the laws of the state she is in and find what legal interventions can be taken.
I also do not know where to leave my story, but I have to comment on this. I have a very frail old mother. She moved 1,000 miles away from me about 2 years ago. I told her I would not see much of her if she did so. She claimed I did not see much of her anyway, so she moved.
Now every chance she gets to come up in my area (she Hassan’s friends and relations here), if I do not stop what I am doing to attend whatever function she has designed, I get a lot of backlash from other family members. “Your mom is so old, don’t you care?”