Topics: AMWF Relationships: The Good, The Bad, and the Ugly (Asian.

It is unfortunate that so many people join dating sites but so few put a fair effort into writing a really good profile that makes them stand out from thousands of other users. I am not sure why people go through the trouble of signing up and filling all those questionnaires and then post a profile that looks like a copy of any other neutral, boring, profile full of cliches and types.

What makes any female dating profile great is the fact that it stands out from the rest of the profiles on any given online dating site. It doesn’t blend in. It’s not generic, neutral and overly politically correct. It doesn’t describe you with overused adjectives such as “intelligent, compassionate, educated, and independent” and it is free of boring statements that say nothing such as “I am as comfortable staying in as staying out.”

Rather than continue describing what a good profile is, I want to bring to your attention real examples of three actual dating profiles from on popular site that I rated for content. I commented in parentheses throughout the profiles below what I thought of them and why:

you should choose the nice guy because the bad boy will probably end up as a jailbird. and you need something stable in you life and a nice boy who actually cares about you would provide such stability

Bad Boy Good Girl

And many others think it’ll never really help you heal completely because you haven’t had time to get over your ex.

But the truth is, unless you let some more love and happiness into your life, you’re never really going to get over your ex in the first place.

But if the only reason you’re getting into a relationship is to forget your ex, and not really to fall in love with someone new, then perhaps it would be better to let your new date know what you have in mind rather than hurt them later.

How to Attract a Bad Boy. Bad boys are known for their free spirits, their edgy good looks, and their cigarettes and leather. Some of them don't neatly fit this James.

lol let me know how that goes 5 months from now

If you have been in the dating world for awhile or really just paying attention to those dating around you, you have likely noticed a universal phenomenon — "bad boys" and "good girls" seem to naturally attract each other. This kind of relationship may well be the most self destructive type there can be for any number of different reasons.

A common misperception is that the bad boy — a guy with an obvious wild side — is somehow manipulating the "good girl" and creating a fictional (therefore, attractive) dating relationship. In reality, in the vast majority of cases, the girl actively seeks out her "bad boy" counterpart. Unless she stops to think about WHY she chases after this kind of guy, often she may be unaware of this need to be in a relationship with someone with a different personality than herself.

Many women come from a family where their father was unavailable to them emotionally. This could be from a divorce that kept the young girl and her father apart or because a father who was present physically was not really there emotionally for the child. In this situation the women attempts to recreate the same distant relationship in her own life in an attempt to "fix" the emotional distance this time around.